Friday, November 12, 2021

Overcoming Tough Times Together


Dear Friends,

What was the worst day of your life?

We might say: the day I lost my spouse, a parent, or child. Some would say the day my marriage broke up or our child got into trouble or turned away from us…the day I lost my job or found out I had a serious illness. Some would say the day my faith in God disappeared or the day I experienced emotional collapse.

Common in all these experiences is a sense of numbness or emptiness. Nothing makes sense anymore. The world has become a hostile place. God seems unreal and remote. Add in the breakdowns and violence in the physical and political worlds and our helplessness is complete. Very few of us go through life without times like this.

Today’s readings are about situations like ours, people like us from another time and place who likewise have come to the end of their resources. We can learn from them on how to face our own crises as individuals and as a people.

The Book of Daniel was written several hundred years before Christ, at a time when the Jewish people were fighting for their very survival. The Gospel of Mark comes out of another time of crisis 30 years or so after Christ’s resurrection. Jerusalem was then under foreign domination and the familiar was being swept away.

Let’s look for the meaning beneath the imagery of the calamitous times described in Daniel and Mark. Today, two thoughts gleaned from Daniel and Mark are worthy of our attention.

First, In the throes of suffering, things are not as they appear. We are not abandoned. God has not lost control. In fact, God goes before us, surrounds us, awaits us, welcomes us, offers us the freedom to shape life. It’s easy to recognize disaster. It’s more important to frame that disaster in the hope that God offers us.

Secondly, it is only as a community that we come through the disasters of life. Much as we would like to think of ourselves as independent, self-sustaining and capable of working through the challenging dimensions of life ourselves, we aren’t, and we can’t be. If you still think so, name anything important in life that we have not received from someone else. I do not exist without a we.

Individuals as well as groups fight the notion of being saved together. Some of us would rather be lonely than bound to others. Some of us fear being so lost in a community that our own personhood and efforts go unnoticed and undervalued. Or we might fear that, in carrying others we might get swept away ourselves.

Today’s readings tell us that only as interdependent people will we be saved. God and we together can and will overcome the threatening darkness.

The Letter to the Hebrews encourages us to hold fast to the confession our hope inspires without wavering, for the one who has made us a promise of life is faithful.

Whatever our difficulties, we have a God upon whom we can depend.

~Sister Joan Sobala