The Gift of Childlike Wonder

Dear Friends,

Children across the USA are well into their two-month summer vacation. Some are enrolled in camps of all kinds; others will be in sports programs. Still, others will spend time on neighborhood playgrounds or play in the streets. There will be some who have no one with whom to play.

This summer, befriend a child or group of children. Talk with them – or better still listen to their views about life and their questions. Get down on the grass with them (if you can) and peer into the eyes of a ladybug. You’ll never experience a ladybug again in such an intimate way.

Too often, we organize children’s lives to an adult degree: sports uniforms, rules of play, and a dressing down when a child has let down a success-driven parent. Too much too soon.

Instead, play with children.

Sing with them.

Be silly together.

Learn to be a child all over again. Don’t forget how much Jesus loved children who were the disregarded, the throwaways in the society of Jesus’ time. Don’t keep them away, Jesus cautioned his disciples, for too such as these belongs the kingdom of God.

Maybe if we recaptured our child-like qualities we might find God and life so much more appealing.

In fact, we are encouraged by the world around us to subdue or abdicate our childlike qualities in favor of adult characteristics. Adult characteristics are not bad, but when mixed with child-like qualities, we enlarge the scope and delight of our lives. Like what?

Among these child-like characteristics are wonder, awe, fantasy, secret places and secret friends, curiosity, candor, silliness, mischief, being impulsive, risk-taking and playfulness. These are only some of a sparkling array of children’s ways of approaching life.

I remember visiting a kibbutz in the occupied West Bank many years ago. Among the families who lived there were Ethiopian Jews. They were Black and experienced racial discrimination. A couple of the Ethiopian children stood quietly looking at us. Would we ignore them too? Without thinking, I stepped forward, extended my hands to them, motioning them to come and dance with me. They did and others joined them. For a few moments, we were like Lady Wisdom in the Book of Proverbs 8.27-31.

Playing on the surface of the earth.
Playing before the Creator,
all the while finding delight in the children of earth.

We won’t start engaging children any younger. So, this summer, let’s go for it.

~ Sister Joan Sobala