Friday, January 23, 2026

The Small Gestures of Life


Dear Friends,

Have you ever been encouraged by others to “think big?" I have. Thinking big is a worldview, an attitude that can lead to success in the world’s estimation.

Thinking big involves expecting more, better, larger physical, mental, spiritual amounts of everything. The creators of the concept leading to self-storage units strewn across the landscape understood what it means to think big. They knew that people had long ago internalized this concept and were in need of more space for everything they had accumulated.

Today, let’s spend time with what “thinking small” might offer us.

Small pleasures, small blessings, small gifts, small steps, small realizations.

Our everyday spiritual lives are most often one of these “smalls” or a combination of them. Jesus, in the Gospel, paid great attention to the power of the small: a cup of cold water, the lilies of the field, the sparrow, one fig tree that didn’t bear fruit, the poor, the sick, the lame and the children who were too small to be considered important. In the Magnificat, Jesus’ Mother, Mary sang of God who has lifted up the lowly.

There are a few saints in the history of the church who did remarkable things. Most were faithful to their call from God in small ways. Therese of Lisieux, the Little Flower, wrote often of the power of the small: “Miss no single opportunity of making some small sacrifice, here by a smiling look, there by a kindly word…" and elsewhere “Remember that nothing is small in the eyes of God. Do small things with great love.”

Sometimes, in a gesture of universal recognition, something enters the public awareness as remarkably important. Such was the case in 1954 when Kitty Kallen introduced a song which has endure to today: “Little Things Mean A Lot.” This song had only one message: the power of the small.

                “Give me your arm when we cross the street.
                A line a day when you’re far away.
                Give me your hand when I’ve lost the way
                Give me your shoulder to cry on.
                Whether the day is bright or gray,
                Give me your heart to rely on.
                Little things mean a lot.”

As winter deepens and the darkness still falls early, as Valentine’s Day approaches and we prepare to celebrate the loves of our lives, express God’s presence to all we meet in the small gestures that every day can hold. 

~ Sister Joan Sobala