Tuesday, October 13, 2015

There’s Work for Us All to Do and to Do Together



Dear Friends,

Yesterday’s news no longer figures into today’s media outlets. That’s the simple fact of contemporary communication worldwide. But yesterday’s human stories go on despite their lack of coverage. Take the vast number of migrants who have fled from Iraq, Syria, and other lands of the mid-East and Africa. If they made it to Europe at all, their gratitude to God/ Allah, kind people, smugglers who delivered, is vast and varied. But once in Europe, they continue to suffer from uprootedness, hunger, sickness, misery of all kinds, including their inability to decide where to go next. In Hungary, we saw how migrants were stopped in their journey by security agents and fences. They were stopped by a nation that seems to have forgotten how, during the Hungarian Revolution in 1956, millions of Hungarians fled to Austria and were taken in. One of the marks of humanity is to forget the good done to us and refuse to pass it on.

We want all we can have for our own: the cozy house, the protective door, a full larder, our own family around us. But if having everything for our own means that others have nothing or very little, then our mindset is not of God.

While we may not be on the front where these life-stories in Europe are being played out, we have our own share of migrants, legal and illegal to work with here in Rochester. The come from Bhutan, Nepal, the lands south of Mexico and other places with names unfamiliar to us. Here in Rochester also, we have seen rejection and violence.
 

Whether thinking of the people out there or here, our part is to make the mind of Jesus our mind. It’s to him we turn.

Next Sunday, we’ll hear how James and John came to Jesus, seeking to be at His right hand and left hand in glory.  No, Jesus said, that was not his to give. Moreover, the important thing was to be the servant of all. (Mark 10.44) All.  Not just the ones we like or choose to serve, but all.  Wrapping our minds around that idea of serving all is hard.  Perhaps our own greatest individual contribution to the work of welcoming immigrants is to help shape our national dialogue and ultimately, the American mindset about welcoming the stranger. This is something we can do, and encourage others to do, if we choose.

“Welcome” is antithetical to “chasing away”. As a nation, we know about welcome, but we also know about chasing away. We did that to people who had a prior claim on the land when we were the immigrants. In 1838-1839, Native Americans – Cherokee, Choctaw, Chickasaw and others – were led through a forced relocation from their tribal lands I the southeast US into what were called the Indian Territories west of the Mississippi. The National Park Service has recently completed the marked trail of tears through nine states, to follow their trek  with reverence. What our government did then was to chase away people who had a prior claim to the land. Now some entrenched groups of Americans want to chase away people from abroad who have outstretched hands, who want to join us here, who want to dry their own tears shed on the desperate trail they traveled.  There’s work for us all to do and to do together.
 
“The liberation of many is a greater task than the lifetime of Jesus Christ. It will take longer and demand more than the lifetime and life of any individual disciple. The community that is willing to give life and not measure the return is the community that has understood the mystery of discipleship.” (author unknown) 
 
~Sister Joan Sobala

Monday, October 5, 2015

Family and the Church



This month, from its opening on October 4 until its closing on October 25, the Synod on the Family will have high priority in Catholic news outlets, and I hope, worldwide media will report the discussions, as well.

Marriage is on the front burner, and in particular, how to welcome Catholics home whose marriages ended in divorce and who have remarried outside the Church. To this end, Pope Francis told those gathered at the opening Mass “the Church should be a bridge and not a roadblock.”

With the uncanny twist only the Holy Spirit can provide, the first and third readings for the 27th Sunday of Ordinary Time (October 4) are about marriage and divorce.(Gen.2.18-24 and Mark 10.2-16). Here are three short reflections which can bring the readings and Synod together in our thinking.

  • it is clear that the Law of Moses allowed divorce. It is equally clear that Jesus says in the Gospel that this was not God’s intention, but came about because of human frailty. Divorce was common in the time of Jesus, although only men could initiate the divorce procedure. Grounds varied among the various rabbinic schools of thought – ranging from flimsy reasons (She is a bad cook!) to the more serious (Adultery).
  •  Specifically in this Gospel; account, Jesus is addressing the implications of divorce as it related to women. For a woman, divorce meant total disgrace in the community, the loss of home and children. She became socially unacceptable on her own. No respectable man would marry her.  In short, Jesus is addressing divorce, not as we know it today, but as a situation in which a human being is treated as an unwanted possession.
  • In our families, among our friends, maybe we ourselves have known the reality of divorce. No one enters marriage planning on divorce. No one enjoys divorce. It is a devastating experience arising out of human frailty.  Divorced and remarried  Catholics feel awkward, uncomfortable, unwelcome at Sunday Mass. To all of these people, the Church needs to be a place where hurts are healed and hearts find courage to rebuild life. Pope Francis, in the spirit of our compassionate and merciful God, bids us search them out and welcome them. We need to do our share to heal the wounds that broke marriages bring.

As they marry, a couple promises love, fidelity – a promise that takes the work of a lifetime of effort, practice,  mutual support.

There’s more. The promise, the embrace of God celebrates our victories with us and holds us in our defeats. These promises human and divine, are the stuff of married life.

Living as we do in the time of Pope Francis, we can be sure he will do all he can to help God’s people live through the greatest challenges we face… living this life – our only life - fully, as we move toward eternal life.  He wants the Synod, and by extension all of us, “to rediscover a church that can unite compassion with justice.”
~Sister Joan Sobala

Monday, September 28, 2015

Woven into Our Faith




Dear Friends,

The Sunday before the liturgical feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross (Sept.14), Sixty Minutes aired a segment on Christians in the Mosul area of Iraq. cross. The anguish of Christians in these towns and villages is compounded by the replacement of the toppled cross atop their churches by the black ISIS flag. The cross is the rallying symbol for these suffering Christians, and they weep, lose heart when its prominence is lost.

The cross is a symbol that is used and misused, treated lightly or warped into what it is not. Some elements of society have adopted the cross as part of their theatrical jewelry. Young rap stars are bedecked with crosses as they sing of raping others.

The cross is woven into our life of faith like no other symbol. We were baptized in water with the sign of the cross. We bless ourselves with water and the sign of the cross when entering church. Parents rooted in faith will often bless their children at bedtime with a prayer and sign them with the cross. We begin and end our liturgies, celebrate each sacrament with the sign of the cross. Throughout the historic visit of Pope Francis last week, we saw him carry a crozier with a cross at its top at liturgies, sign people with the cross, wear it openly on his white papal clothing.

For believers, the cross is a universal symbol, a triumph of love over hate, a triumph of faith over cynicism, a triumph of embrace over rejection.  It is also a symbol of contradiction. How could this instrument of execution used in the Roman Empire as a penalty reserved for lower class criminals  be for us a symbol of redemption? Talk of the cross sometimes makes us squirm. It makes us think of suffering and death, and these are realities people try to avoid. Our age, in particular, wants no part of pain and suffering. We don’t want to experience it and we don’t want to see it.  Here in the USA, at our southern border and across Europe this summer, suffering people are being turned away or treated harshly. Yet, ironically, it is only through suffering that we, individually and together, come to fullness. We make life decisions through our experiences of suffering. To put it another way, through suffering, the meaning of life becomes clear to us. We become refined through suffering.  God is committed to us in the goodness of our lives, laced as it is with loss, bewilderment emptiness, pain and suffering of all sorts.

The cross reminds us that God’s love does not protect us from all suffering. Rather, God’s love is a shelter in all suffering. With Jesus who went before us to the cross and His resurrection, we are encouraged to go on. Pope Francis last week, urged us to grow in depth of living our faith. Let’s let the cross be a symbol of  our willingness to do so.

Do you have a cross hanging prominently somewhere in your home? That used to be the case in many if not all Christian homes.  If you hang a cross in your home, it will be a reminder to all who live in this house that faith that supports your life and a non-verbal way of proclaiming to all who enter that believers live here. Why not have a household meeting and decide whether you should do this?

~Sister Joan Sobala

Thursday, September 17, 2015

He's Coming!




Dear Friends,

He’s coming.

Pope Francis will be in our country from September 22 to September 27.

You can be sure that the cities, churches and people of Washington, New York and Philadelphia are preparing. So is the Pope with his 18 talks, his remarkable energy, love of God, all the earth and humanity. Spin doctors, commentators, authors, groups with their laudable causes or not, have already put out their views, analyses, desires, plans for these days of grace, wonder, amazement, discouragement, disagreement and distress. We may already be tired of all the preliminaries. Weary, we may miss the event itself. How do we make sure it’s fresh to us?

Since most of us will not see him up close and personal, here’s my suggestion to make the most of the Pope’s visit. Shut out the ambient noise and instead, concentrate on Pope Francis. Watch him, pray with him,  listen to him and draw out your own insights and conclusions. Writing in a recent issue of the National Catholic Reporter, Thomas Reese, S.J. offers checkpoints to do this well. He says we ought to look at five things in the visit of Pope Francis:

                                                Francis the man, but it’s not about himself
                                                Francis the prophet, who speaks truth to power
                                                Francis the peacemaker, speaking to all nations, all creeds
                                                Francis the pastor, visiting, touching, speaking, listening
                                                Francis on message. God’s message: Love one another

See how these qualities emerge in the very busy days ahead. Think for yourself. Talk to others about what you see and what you hear. Eventually you will read and absorb the many facets of this trip. Other voices will help nuance what you think and believe about him and his message, but begin with opening your own heart and mind. 

~Sister Joan Sobala

Monday, September 14, 2015

Embrace Jesus with a Love Name




Dear Friends,

In Chapter 8 of the Gospel of Mark, Jesus asks the people two questions important to Him:
“Who do people say I am?” and shortly after that,” Who do you say I am?” In today’s reflection, I offer a few quotes about Jesus for us to mull over, savor, make our own or lead us to formulate our own thoughts about Jesus.
                Jesus is the undistorted image of God and the undistorted image of what it means to be human.            (Canon John Townroe)
                Jesus is the Feast, the Truth, the Life, the Covenant, Light, Freedom, Solidarity, the Good News,             the Pilgrim, the Way, the Beckoner.  (Author unknown)

                Christ is the Wisdom of God.  (Saint Augustine)

These four points about Jesus are the non-negotiables of William O’Malley, S.J.
1.       Jesus is the embodiment of God; God focused all that is God into Him.
2.       Jesus died in order to rise, to remove the curse from death and share His eternal aliveness with us.
3.       If we engraft ourselves into Jesus, we take on His values, which are subversive against all the world holds dear.
4.       We celebrate our oneness with Jesus in a community of service and a weekly meal.

And from the pen of Jessica Powers:
                                                                                    The Master Beggar
                                               
                                                                Worse than the poorest mendicant alive,
                                                                the pencil man, the blind man with his breath
                                                                of music shaming all who do not give,
                                                                are You to me, Jesus of Nazareth.
                               
                                                                Must You take up Your post on every block                        
                                                                of every street? Do I have no release?
                                                                Is there no room on earth that I can lock
                                                                to Your sad face, Your pitiful whisper “Please?”

Now it’s your turn to embrace Jesus with a love-name… and mine.

~Sister Joan Sobala